I worry myself into not
doing bad things or risky behaviors, Been keeping me safe for years now.
Cancer
Your element: Water
Your ruling planets: The Moon
Symbol: The Crab
Your stone: Moonstone
Life Pursuit: Constant reassurance and intimacy
Vibration: Moody
Cancer's Secret Desire: To feel safe (emotionally, spiritually, romantically and financially)
Strengths:
Dependability, loyalty, genuine attachment to a family, and empathy.
Weaknesses:
moodiness, sensitivity, and emotional outbursts and indecisiveness.
Cancer is an astrological sign, which is associated with the constellation Cancer. It spans the 90-120th degree of the zodiac, between 90 and 125.25 degree of celestial longitude, which the Sun transits this area on average between June 22 to July 22 each year.
About Cancer
The crab's tendency to live in the past is more
pronounced in singlehood, but romance blooms as you remove obstacles and achieve
personal goals. A born lover with a tender heart, Cancer is easily wounded by
the harsh realities of the world. To protect yourself, you establish a secure
perimeter and stockpile defense mechanisms, but these end up removing you from
the ones you love.
Cancer will often
masquerade their emotions with humor. Laughing is a common disguise used by
Cancer to hide signs of depression. Cancer will set their aspirations high.
Constant struggles for success and achievement lay beneath the exterior shell of
Cancer.Cancer is
controlled by the “Moon” and the moon change it’s shape daily, so does the
Cancer man’s emotional and moods change all the time too.
Cancer zodiac sign has the symbol of 'The Crab'. He is very prone to mood
swings, which are matched by ever changing emotions. At one point of time, you
may have seen him in a typical party mood, enjoying him laughing, another time,
he may be completely introverted, sitting in a corner and lost in his own world.
This single personality trait can help you in identifying a Cancer very easily. No one single emotion or personality can label a Cancer.
A Cancerian will never run behind fame and
publicity, but if he ever gets it, he definitely knows how to Shine in the
public interest and spotlight.
The Cancer-born possess a keen intellect and are good with their
fine motor skills. That is why they often earn a name for themselves in the
fields of art, sales, media and performing arts.
When Gloomy and sad, he becomes the coldest person on this earth. They are prone
to pessimism and usually hide their fears behind a veil of humor. They love to
dream and for them, sky's the limit. When he cries, it is because he is deeply
hurt from inside. Cancer carries a very vulnerable heart and you have to very
careful with that. A bad experience will easily break the heart.
When he is hurt, he will go silent and
if you are close to him he will cry his heart out.
However, it is rare that he takes revenge
from the one who has hurt him. If a Cancer retreats to his shell, you can be
sure he will become completely unreachable. He won't pick his phone, answer the
doorbell or even check his mail.
One of the Emotions that he shows is a shattered and impulsive one, he will
break out at everything under the sun when he is in his shell and you will get
to know that he is not normal and he is not angry with you and he will be get
back his normal self again.
While in a conversation, the facial features of a crab will change a number of
times, displaying his numerous moods. He has a vivid imagination and at times
will drown you in his moods too. Each and every experience affects him and guess
he will remember all such experiences. He remembers everything life has taught
them and are true patriots.
Their past conspires and puzzles, they keep drowning and surfacing in it. They
are the perfect keepers of secrets and people automatically confide in them.
However, their own thoughts and secrets are
strictly off limits for everyone. A typical cancer Doesn’t want to discuss the
personal life with anyone. Compassion and insights set perfectly with his
personality. He seldom judges people, just soaks up what comes his way and
reflects the same. He will never ever give up an object he cherishes, be it a
gift from a lover or the worn jeans he loves wearing. They have a soft heart;
they care about people and are quite helpful. However, they wait to see if
someone else is helping too. If they observe the same, they will sit back and
let the other person be the rescuer.
In case no one comes forward; they will
be there to save you. A Cancer person may come at the last minute, but he will
save you just before you are about to go down. He is not selfish, it just that
he never wants to be impulsive. But, he will save you nonetheless. Before he
makes any move, a Cancerian must be sure of strong assistance. Without it, he
hates to venture on his own. He does not forget mistakes easily, especially his
own.
and he will keep on thinking about them
before making the next move. Cancerian loves, rather admire, his home and his
loved ones, nothing is enough for him. He needs more, more security, more love
and more care. Insecurity may lead him to depression and
weaken him physically. they have this amazing quality of self-healing. All they
require is happiness, optimism and laughter in large doses. They are prone to
negative thoughts and are always preparing for the unseen future.
With this sign
anything you do in the blink of an eye: you must have all your patience and if
you do not ! Given that it takes more time than usual, stay calm and try to
inspire confidence. Take care of your cancer as if it were your
child resolving a problem, constantly ask him if he needs you...in short,
make yourself indispensable. Be gentle, speak
well and you like poetry imperative one that exclusively devoted to him! If you
are not able to do really serious about this man,pull back right away...or you
will end up, without realizing, in a wedding.
Getting him is not as easy as one would think.This water sign is unique and moody. Cancers like safe and traditional and has all the qualities sensitive, polite, trusting but you will never know how he feels up front. They don’t want to be injured so they hide all feelings in the beginning. They are terrified of rejection and tend to set themselves up for disappointment. They’re they guys that require a strong friendship before dating. Generally speaking though, a cancer man won’t let you into his life unless he loves you. Once you cross over from friendship to love, your battle is not won yet. Remain consistent. Keep the assurances flowing and the flirtations meaningful. In love his fear of being hurt grows as the attachment grows. Cancer men are selective and seek well dressed, polite, classic beauties, they like being traditional. When with him. it’s class all the way!The ruling planet for cancer is the Moon, representing secret places and feminine darkness. Cancer men like the dark! walking in moonlight, and night long parties. Don’t cling onto a crab man, they require their own space to tip toe roam sideways and pinch around.
The cancer motto is I FEEL. These are the sensitive
guys in the world. The soulful songwriters and love lost poets. Cancer men love
to impress by cooking at home then flaunting their masterful cuddling skills
while watching artistic or funny movies movies.
Almost always good
looking these guys have a baby face or a structured crab like face. They are
polite, because of that, they are always very popular. Cancer men are the
most loyal of the astrology signs. They make excellent lovers for person who
loves romance and being swept off their feet.
A Cancerian guy may get sad and melancholic at times and then you will feel like putting your arms around him and comforting him. Then, suddenly his wistfulness will vanish and he will be sparkling with wit and humor. He is a true romantic and sees fairytale dreams frequently. However, he is as close to reality as anyone can be. Baffled? Don’t worry, it’ll take some time, but you will start understanding your Cancerian man slowly and gradually. The changes in him do not mean a changing personality like Geminis.
Usually an angry Cancer
man is still holding onto a grudge from his last relationship, or something from
childhood.But when the cancer man is happy, everyone adores him. Parents,
children, friends, friends of friends and other people.
Emotional that they are, the Cancer are more concerned with expressing and
absorbing emotions Thus, superficial conversations may not interest them much.These guys are friendly
to everyone, but extremely picky about who they date, it’s not a game to them,
it’s real. They won’t get serious until it’s time to settle down.
soi am a gemini and i have crush on this cancer man and recently i confessed to him that i have a crush on him but then he didnt sau he likes me back or has a crush on me too?!! so i am like wondering wether he even likes me or not?Or is it really hard for cancer men to confess their love?Please help
Christie
Reply
Oh Christie, I learned this lesson about 5 years ago. A
cancer man will play coy and cool until he is 110% sure you are in it to win
it.. Then and only then will he open up his true nature, and reveal his
emotions. Cancer men are completely terrified of being rejected.. Thus they
take the longest to express how they feel! My advice is this, if you can
feel him (intuitively) digging you, loving you.. desiring you.. Then just
roll with it. Don’t be pushy, just be nurturing and excepting of him! Enjoy
the little moments until he falls for you.. Then he will be a long term
partner in friendship and wild love making
This woman has a round
face with expressive eyes that compliment her curvaceous body. The Cancer woman
is extremely emotional, which can be a great thing because of her intuitive
nature. She is compassionate for all walks of life, and will stop to help any
person in need. She is the perfect family woman, who protects and nurtures her
family and friends. If you want to impress a Cancer woman, assure her that your
life is very stable and grounded, and she will fall right into place. Cancer
women should be courted and showed affection on a regular basis. She is 100%
woman and this will show in her actions, because unlike other women she reacts
to feelings and emotion. Her body is made for nurturing and caring for this
world, and it’s best to let the Cancer woman be all that she can be.
Extremely introvert and certainly not the easiest ones to understand, these
sensitive souls hide their emotions well beneath their tough exterior. This
is driven by their fear of trust, Cancer has a difficult time trusting people.
This causes built up anger and resentment inside, the contradictory
nature really takes a toll on them and they can have a negative outlook on life,
thinking that life is just too hard and miserable. This is unfortunate because
when good experiences are to be had, they are skeptical of people and their
surroundings and they experience tunnel vision due to their depressed outlook
and they miss the nice things and happy experiences in life that make it worth
living. In addition to lack of trust for people, Cancer is deeply sensitive and
easily hurt, this is other reason why they have their defense shell in place, to
avoid being hurt by others.
Once you know each other too much, he will start to look for new excitement, but not to worry for he will always think of you. If he thinks you are the true love for him, just try to make yourself disappear.You will be sure he will come and look for you. He is a shy guy, but if he likes you. You can get up in the morning and see that he is in front of your house everyday till you go out with him, a very persistent guy. He likes a secure, cheerful and lively woman, confident but at the same time always act proper and appropriate. He likes a secure woman, but able to adjust to his rapid changes. A very difficult type of woman to find indeed.In the beginning, you and him will be so sugary sweet together and he will only think of you.
Cancer lives in the past.
They hold past events close to them and often dwell on the past. They have to
learn to let go and live in the present instead of spending their time being
sick with nostalgia. Cancer has a lot of emotional issues to deal with but once
they overcome this large hump of shyness and insecurity, there is practically
nothing they can't do. With their strong intuition, sensitivity, powers of
observation and intelligence, they will have great success in anything they
undertake.
The nest is naturally important to Cancer. It is a sign of habit.
Even an unsettled Cancer, maintaining a casual affair, will usually collapse in
the same chair in the living room, and indulge in the same rituals and drink.
Permanent the liaison may not be; but that need for roots and security can give
the feeling of continuity to even the briefest, most casual of Cancerian
relationships.
Deep inside, Cancer is a very powerful sign, they have the ability
to stand up for what they think is right and they have lots of perseverance and
can be fine on their own provided they don't let their emotions get the better
of them and have the stability they need. They are not fond of change but they
have the ability to do what needs to be done, they are not pushovers or lazy
people.
You must be direct, Cancer
will not. Let your feelings for them be known, this is the first step to
initiating a relationship with a Cancer. This way, will not have to risk
rejection, one of their biggest fears. If you are looking for a short fling, be
straight with them.
Do not lead them on to
thinking there is long term commitment is there is none because you will hurt
these emotionally delicate people. Trust is the most important. Build trust with
them and they will gradually get closer to you. Give them approval and
compliments but be careful because they will easily sense when you are
complimenting them just for the sake of it. Be sincere. Ask Cancer for advice,
share your problems (but don't burden them), they enjoy helping people and
giving advice. They like culture and lavish experiences. Take them to a play or
museum and a fancy, upscale restaurant. Do not force Cancer into a relationship
or make them make a decision on the spot. They will shy away from you. Have
patience, this is the key to attracting a Cancer. Be physical with them, they
love genuine affection. They are very cautious and as time passes, they will
slowly grow closer to you and you will have wonderful, fulfilling relationship.
Famous people born under the zodiac sign of Cancer include
Cyndi Lauper born June 22,
Kris Kristofferson born June 22,
Meryl Streep born June 22,
George Michael born June 25,
Chris Isaak born June 26,
Tobey Maguire born June 27,
John Cusack born June 28,
Ross Perot born June 28,
Dan Aykroyd born July 1,
Liv Tyler born July 1,
Pamela Anderson born Lee July 1,
Princess Diana born July 1,
Jerry Hall born July 2,
Tom Cruise born July 3,
Huey Lewis born July 5,
Dalai Lama born July 6,
George W. Bush born July 6,
Sylvester Stallone born July 6,
Ringo Starr born July 7,
Anjelica Huston born July 8,
Kevin Bacon born July 8,
Jimmy Smits born July 9,
Tom Hanks born July 9,
Giorgio Armani born July 11,
Harrison Ford born July 13,
David Hasselhoff born July 17,
Nelson Mandela born July 18,
Carlos Santana born July 20,
David Spade July 22,
Robin Williams born on July 22.
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